Friday, January 15, 2010

New Simpson's link

http://www.wtso.net/movie/387-407_Marge_Gets_a_Job.html

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Let's Live!

The class will be working on a suicide prevention class for a week. Please meet in Mr. Smith's classroom.

The Simpson's - Marge Gets a Job


Watch this episode for an example of money vs job satisfaction




http://www.wtso.net/movie/387-407_Marge_Gets_a_Job.html


1) What does Marge do for a living?
2) Why did Marge decide to get a job?
3) How did the old man at the retirement party feel about retiring? Did it seem like he liked his job?
4) What does Homer think about Marge working at first? After she chose to work at the plant?
5) Why is Marge’s resume so small? Do you think Lisa’s resume was legitimate after she fixed it?
6) How is Grampa doing at being the “stay at home mom”
7) Do you think Marge’s co-workers pick their job because they like it?
8) How did Homer’s opinion of Marge working at the plant change in the end ?

Portfolio

This class will be completing an exit project for submission at the end of the semester. This exit project will include a collection of work from the semester. This portfolio will include monthly work that has been neatly completed; some work has been handed in and graded while other work has not. We will discuss the exit project in detail at a later date. You should have the following in your portfolio thus far:

1. Funniest, Proudest, Embarrassing Moment

2. Illusion paradigm/principles

3. Notes on paradigm including one paradigm about yourself

4. “What About Bob?”

5. A principle-centered life

6. Centered paradigms

7. The principle wheel

8. “Man in the Mirror”

9. Power tools

10. “How Are you Smart Chart”

11. “7 Habits Tree”

12. Audrey Hepburn’s Beauty Tips

13. “The Voice Finder Map”

14. “Before, During, and After”

15. “Baby Steps”

16. My hero

17. Mission Statement

18. “Types of Families”

19. “The Honeymooners”

20. “Finding Nemo”

21. Family History

22. Family and Maslow’s Theory

23. Definition of relationship

24. Notes on Abuse

25. 5 ways to resolve conflict (including chart)

26. The Give and Take in Relationships

27. Teens and Dating Violence

28. What Type of Fruit Are You

29. “Bee Movie”

30. Dreams, Goals, and Interests

31. Simpson’s “Marge Gets a Job”

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Teens and Dating notes

Know the signs:

Healthy
· Talking about your feelings
· Respecting date’s friends and activities
· Considering the other person’s opinions and feelings
· Respecting differences in other persons
· Stating differences of opinion
· Having an equal say in the relationship
· Figuring out a solution that is good for both of you

Unhealthy
· Believing one sex has more rights than the other
· Shouting or yelling when you are angry at your date
· Using the silent treatment
· Pestering your date until you get what you want
· Pouting to get what you want

Abusive
· Dominating and controlling your date’s other relationships/friends and activities
· Name calling (putdowns)
· Threatening harm
· Intimidating by hitting or destroying property
· Being extremely jealous and possessive of date
· Pushing, hitting, restraining or holding your date against his/her will
· Forcing sexual touching or intercourse

The Bee Movie!


While watching the movie, make note of each of the following
1. Labelling: Some events/scenes where I noticed labelling:
________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

2. End in Mind: Some events/scenes where I noticed “End in Mind”:
________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

3. Goals: Some events/scenes where I noticed goals or goals setting:
________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

4. Time Management: Some events/scenes where I noticed...
(a) Procrastination: ______________________________________________________________
(b) Slacking: ____________________________________________________________________
(c) Being a follower: _____________________________________________________________
(d) Prioritizing: _________________________________________________________________

5. Relationship Bank Account: Some events/scenes where I noticed...
(a) Keeping a promise: ___________________________________________________________
(b) Small act of kindness: _________________________________________________________
(c) Being loyal: _________________________________________________________________
(d) Saying you are sorry: __________________________________________________________

6. Relationship Situation: Some events/scenes where I noticed...
(a) Win-win: ___________________________________________________________________
(b) Win-lose: ___________________________________________________________________
(c) Lose-win: ___________________________________________________________________
(d) Lose-lose: __________________________________________________________________

7. Listening: Some events/scenes where I noticed...
(a) “Check out”: ________________________________________________________________
(b) Pretend Listening:____________________________________________________________



Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Resolving Conflict: It's Your Choice

Withdraw: When the relationship is unimportant to you and your goals are not important either, you can just walk away and not resolve the conflict

Acquiescence: When the relationship is more important to you than your goals in the situation, you can resolve the conflict by acquiescing, giving in to the other person.

Forcing: When your goals are more important to you than your relationship with the other person, and more important then the other person’s goals, you can resolve the conflict by forcing, getting your own way.

Compromise: When your goals are as important as your relationship with the other person, and as important as their goals, you can resolve the conflict by compromising, giving in a little to meet the other person halfway and still get some of what you want.

Negotiation: When your goals are important to you, but you understand that the other person’s goals are also important, and you want to maintain a good relationship, you can resolve the conflict by negotiating a solution that suits both of you.